Hi Roger,
You can't make a Kitfox stall/spin proof - same is true of virtually all airplanes. Some of the "spin resistant" airplanes out there can even instill a bit of unwarranted trust in the plane - if one of them ever does manage to get into a spin - it can be as difficult or worse to get it out of the spin.
What I found in testing our series 7 is that power off coordinated stall are extremely gentle - A person can literally go to 5,000 ' in a kitfox - power off and do a dozen or so consecutive "glider stalls" (meaning stall recoveries without the use of power) and you will be surprised how gentle they are and how little altitude is lost with a power off stall recovery (which is real good to know).
Power on stalls with full flaps and partial power (3/4), provided you stay coordinated, at least in my experience with our plane are more abrupt but entirely manageable.
For the record - I did not do any spin testing of the airplane on the basis the design was not really tested for that purpose in its development. Yes, I know - people have done spins in a kitfox; they can go ahead an do that on their nickel - I won't - that's just me.
OK - full flaps - the series 7 is set up for half flaps and full flaps. what I found in testing is that there is a pretty significant stall speed reduction with half flaps and no noticeable change in handling compared to retracted other than the nose attitude changes. I also found that going to full flaps does little to further reduce stall speed but significantly changes the yaw characteristics - so much so that I almost never use full unless on short final in calm conditions.
I think a person has some potential to scare the living crap out of themselves with a full power, full flaps stall in an uncoordinated condition in a kitfox.
You prevent stall/spin deals by becoming more knowledgeable and consequently more confident about your ability control the aircraft. This is all about aircraft control.
Your comment "Or maybe just flying it only in a particular manner" really is the answer - and, the particular manner means 1) keeping the airplane coordinated especially in turns in the pattern, 2) keeping your airspeed/wing loading within reason (which keeps the angle of attack of the wing out of a stall/spin range). You are correct in following this reasoning - it's all about how you handle the aircraft.
The big problem with stall spin accidents it is the fatal type stall spin usually occurred at such a low altitude that a recovery was impossible.
If a stall/spin occurs at 5,000 feet - there is air below you to sort the mess out. If it occurs at 500 - it's going to end up being an auger job. Bottom line - don't stall spin at low altitude. Back to correct operation and training.
A highly recommended thing is to get some spin experience in a spin approved aircraft with a PROFICIENT spin instructor. I got curious enough to do that some years ago and what I can tell you is the experience (which is done at sufficient altitude) makes it absolutely clear to a person that you simply cannot allow a stall spin to develop at low altitude once you find out how much altitude is really needed to do the recovery. The second thing the training does is really helps a person understand what makes a stall spin happen. Once you know what makes it happen you know exactly what to do to make it not happen.
The US standards do not require spin training for a PP cert - other countries do and I think it should be done here too.
You're on the right track - just go out there and work your plane and get some spin training in an approved plane if you can - it'll do wonders for a person's confidence.
Sincerely,
Dave S